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Coopersburg, Pennsylvania, United States
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Taken
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No, and do not want any
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to Motsotj : Continued...

At this point, I pulled the plug and gave up entirely on dealing with his idiotic games, rudeness, lack of comprehension and/or care and breaking rules, as he's done literally nothing but waste my time, waste my effort and disrespect my genuine kindness and offer to chat for a freaking month!! Being the jerk he CHOSE to be through the series of poor decisions he's made for himself, he landed on the public community Hall Of Shame boards for his idiotic behavioral disorders. Of course, rather than any apology and sucking up his enormous ego, when word got back to him about this, he retaliates on my wall with "Idiot", as if I'm somehow to blame for HIS stupidity and rudeness! Nope! Let's be totally transparent here. This is purely his way of retaliation. Screen shots of entire conversations available to anyone questioning or doubting my claims as proof to back me up. Only idiot here is Shivam_asthetic07, who once again, made another sighting for himself publicly. Congrats!
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to Shivam_asthetic07 : "Idiot"? Wow, how informative! Let us share the transparency with the entire world of why you are REALLY retaliating on me, shall we?

Audience, how about we start from 8/6/23 when he contacts me in a message with small talk of "liking my profile" (keep this in mind for later reference) and nice words that ping ponged up until 8/12, then immediately turning complete pervert (breaking my profile rules for contacting me). I took it all in stride, POLITELY responded a paragraph to get you back on track on 8/12.

You reply days later on 8/15 "Good dear" as I wat for you to begin convo. Zzzz... .

On 8/16 I reply and follow-up, asking you to please begin convo. Zzzz... .

On 8/20 you merely reply "Hii dear can we start our conversation...", but then literally put in no effort to actually begin it at all. Zzzz... .

On 8/21 I reply, again, just reiterating to him that I have been waiting for convo to start since 8/6 (mind you, it's now 8/21...weeks into what should be mountains of balanced and interesting conversations by this point).

He follows-up with me, asking which porn I like (once again, breaking my profile rules for contacting me).

Back to the drawing boards I go and have to babysit him by explaining that he's irrelevantly contacting me with these topics. I again offer him to "clean chat" with me, per the profile description and the very reason he supposedly chose to contact me.

He replies and shows enthusiasm to hold chats. "All good, we're FINALLY on track", I think to myself. Well, then he gets pushy and expects immediate replies. Wait, so much wrong here. First, we're communicating through the message system (it's email, not intended as live IM). Second, he's half a world away from me in India, which means that he's probably awake when I'm asleep, and vice versa. And yet another set of paragraphs get sent his way. He ignored everything I said (RUDE!), then replies in a separate chain of irrelevant topic about my status being a "porn lover". WTF! And yet another paragraph was written to him, going over A-Z.

We're now at 8/25 at this point, almost a month into contact with one another, and we've barely got past the "hello" stage yet. He again now agrees to "start a healthy conversation" as he put it and again, seems eager to begin. I reply and confirm that I'm more than ready, whenever he chooses to get this ball moving forward with RELEVANT chat.

To nobody's surprise, he immediately asks me if I'm married. Remember that part above where he claimed to have read my profile? It tells him in my profile that I'm married. I again shrugged it off, explained yes I am am that it was on my profile. He follows up by asking me if I've ever been creampied (third time now, breaking my profile rules for contacting and the expected conduct).

 
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Idiot
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to Muffin200 : You are smart to keep your friends list small then you might avoid the idiots!! Lol
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Simpsonss345 is another bad apple in the bunch. Keep clear he will preach stupid shit. Science, evolution, men have it so bad and women are privileged. It's ridiculous. 
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xloveart - Women, pass him by. He is nothing but a !mmature time-waster who doesn't read and who will disrespect you. He's on public blast for a valid reason.
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xloveart - what a guy this is. He contacts me months ago and inquires about a truth or dare game. I ask him to read my profile and let me know if he's contacting me for the right reasons. I'm ignored for a week or two.
I contact him two more times, asking for a determination. He replies back confused, like we never spoke before, saying he has no determination and that he has read my profile, wants to have fun together and wants to chat with me. I think to myself "great!" and accept his offer to proceed.

Immediately he goes on to ask if I like "online fun", so I ask him to define that for me. He tells me that he was thinking of "sexual fun, "naughty stuff" and "videocall". Umm, wait a second, if he read my profile like he said he did, it already told him I wasn't interested in sexual or video stuff. I reply and politely tell him that his thoughts are contrary to my profile. I again give him another shot and ask him to give a determination. I'm ignored again.
A week or so goes by and I contact him again and stress a reply. He replies, again playing dumb and tells me that he now sees a clear profile description...like you didn't previously?? I reply, simply asking for clarification if he's writing to me for the right reason so we can either continue on a straight path or disengage. His games continue, asking why I actually need clarification. Umm, because why am I wasting time with someone if there is no relevant basis of your contact if it is not what I offer you??

He continues, making it seem like he as a guy is in the captain's seat by saying that if we exchange pics and videocall, then he'd be happy to continue on our conversation together, even though again it contradicts all that my profile tells him (minding you again that he has claimed to have read it all over). I'm ignored again.
Another week goes by and I reply back, urging a determination. Finding himself in a corner and realizing he's not getting the answers he desperately wants, his ego kicks in and turns full-on goof, telling me "waiting is a virtue :grinning: ", "you're very patient ...impressive!", dodging my questions and replies, acting !mmature with "Ha ha you're funny", "are you ok?" and then continuing on his wacky comments when I've decided to disengage. The moment he ends up on public blast for being sour with me, he tells me that I keep posting comments to his profile, in an annoyed way. Ummm, duh! Yeah, you have earned the ill reputation you desperately went after!! He continually deletes his comments to try to cover up his behavior. He writes to me "you're kind of stupid I guess :grinning: ", followed by blocking me.
Weeks later, the same guy who blocked me and claims "I'm stupid" starts sending me messages again (like we have never spoke before or something) and says "Hi. How are you" (as if I'm able to reply back, whilst being blocked by him). Oh lord! And I'm supposedly the "stupid" one? Give me a break!   
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Thank you, dear.  Much appreciated!
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Dremo87 - Here's a good one that's short and sweet for all of you watchers. Meet Dremo87 (a.k.a. "Oscar"), our buffoon of the day. According to HIS logic, he'll irrelevantly initiate contact with you with sexual stupidity and that's perfectly acceptable for us women to POLITELY have to put up with it (as I had), yet when he doesn't get the one and only answer of "yes" that he was looking for in a reply, he'll retort aggressively with profanities and sheer hatred, followed up by an unjustified block, as well. The conversation had, is as follows:

Dremo87: Do you like big black cocks

Me: No relevance in your message, per my outlined profile.

Dremo87: then go fuck yourself somewhere else fuckin bitch

Dremo87: This user blocked you. You are not allowed to send private messages to this user.

He claims he's "Catholic" on his profile. Surely this is the way of God, eh? Women, do yourselves all a favor and pass this buffoon by, if he ever crosses your path. He's precisely the reason why nearly no REAL women exist, chat or meet and why sites like these have opted to strict governing with very little freedom. We can all thank buffoons like Dremo87, who have shaped society so poorly over the years. And for you guys out there: Don't be an "Oscar" Dremo87!
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EffinFamous138 - He's a wolf in sheep's clothing, so don't let him fool you, or you'll be the fool. Women, avoid this clown at all costs! You'll totally thank me later!
At first, he'll come off nice and approachable (as you see here in his comment to me down below). He'll contact you in a PM, very friendly, warm and welcoming. He falls off the grid a bit (nothing too crazy, but enough for you to begin babysitting him with follow-ups for his disappearance for days at a time, as the chat goes stagnant). Still, tolerable and civil between us. He tells me he's been super busy lately (which is fine), then says that he "never knows who to take seriously on here" (as if he somehow is questioning my legitimacy). I VERY, VERY politely respond back, saying:
"Hi. Great to hear back from you. I can understand your skepticism on that matter as the conditions have ruined the scene with all of the fakes, catfish (men pretending to be women), bots, scams, prostitutes, etc... . I am who I claim to be and a good sign of that legitimacy probably can be gathered from my detailed profile (I mean, would fakes of any kind really have a description such as mine?). No worries if you are super busy. I'm glad that you have communicated that to me now, so I'm aware of it. Well, I don't know what much to say here and now. You know why I'm here and what my expectations are (profile), so if/when things slow down for you to the point where we can hold some balanced, meaningful and lengthy pen pal type of conversations with each other, I'll be here. :grinning: If/until then, please take care and I hope things go smoother for you soon.".
Without any response, no communication, no apparent reason, zero respect or consideration and also disrespecting my profile rules, he goes ahead and blocks me, without any justified reason whatsoever! RUDE BEYOND BELIEF! He now ends up on the Hall Of Shame for his shameful behavioral issues! Ironically, his screen name (EffinFamous) has now revealed just how famous he has become throughout this community of watchers. Smh! 
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Armsofjustice - Beware of this clown. He's your typical rude, ignorant, inconsiderate idiot who refuses to read profiles, contact you with irrelevance, waste your time and effort, mistreat you, mock and belittle you, then won't listen to a polite word you say before he simply blocks you like garbage.  
He'll only contact you with gross, irrelevant sexual stupidity, saying: "I waited for my mom to get home from work and get in the shower! I went into her room and picked up her panties still warm and damp! Laid my cock in the crotch and filled them with cum!!". Yuck!  Creepy!  Smh!

Women: Avoid him at all costs. You'll thank me later!

Men: Listen up - guys like Armsofjustice are the very reason why very few real women are online, won't chat and won't meet. Don't be that guy!
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to stilworks : Cool.
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to HandsomlyAdd : Au contraire! Women, don't allow him to sidetrack you.  This is purely retaliation on his part.  Let it be known that he's the one who initiated contact with me first with irrelevant criteria.  I politely responded and asked him to keep further inquiry relevant to my chat expectations. In turn he retorts on me, claiming that I and my profile are "uppity" and that he could really care less if we chat or not (so why contact me at all?).  He's apparently oblivious as to why my my profile is detailed the way it is and as to what females deal with around here, his confusion in the matter gets vented and somehow taken out on me with his "don't do this, don't do that" comments he makes, immediately drawing conclusions of me without putting an ounce of effort to actually get to know me or to even ask why that is.  After a mountain of explanation, he turns around and attempts to belittle me by sending a laughing emoji and asking why his idiocy struck such a nerve in me.  To add insult to injury, he then admits "I’m not even reading all that that’s way too much lmao" as I politely took my time and effort to compose him a lengthy set of paragraphs of polite and detailed explanations and to give him another chance to start over.  Totally rude!  And yet I'm the clowny behavior?  Too funny!  That's ok, the emails are proof and they are already floating around the community blog sections as the indisputable proof.  I mean, guys like this not only crush their own odds of any level of success around here to chat/meet women, but they hurt everyone by choosing to be buffoons and not even giving woman a valid reason to come here to begin with.  Zero incentive!  You men had better wake up and shape up!  Where is the huge mystery when you observe sites like these, see nearly no real women, none who chat or none who meet?  No need to then cry when you desire something that doesn't exist, have massive imbalance of gender ratios or wonder why enormous volume of spam, bots, scammers, fakes or catfish exist. Smh!
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🤡 behavior 
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to EffinFamous138 : Hi, neighbor.  Yes, I am. :smile:
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EffinFamous138
Good morning I see your also in Pennsylvania 
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to fysslover : I mean, there's no hard feeling here or anything.  If you want a friend add, then earn it.  That's the reality of how women operate.  Is a "friend add" really considered a "friend" at all, if someone is a complete stranger who initiates their first message to me saying "add me, please"?  Again, no hard feelings.  Want me to add you? Give me that relevant reason to.  Get to know me for a woman and as the human being that I am.  You're not intruding at all; you're just not attempting to earn yourself a friendship add by not being willing to chat, get to know me, gain trust, gain comfort, grow a mutual bond and so forth.  That's what a friendship is.  So again, that offer is on the table and has always been.  The ball has entirely been in your court from the start to play the game properly.  Simple. :smile:
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to Motsotj : OK. I withdraw my application. Sorry for intruding on your life. Stay happy.
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to fysslover : Give me a relevant reason to.  I have no idea who you are. You're simply a complete stranger who hasn't bothered to try to get to know me, hold conversations, gain comfort/trust or build a friendship.  Sheesh.
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Addme Please
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to Huge_Nigga_Dick : Nope.  Your IQ is just far too low for me.
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Is my 16inch/40cm too big 4 u
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Hot pierced tits happy 2023
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stilworks
here for the porn and chat
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Rochblue
to Denis_r : He's the real truth and translation to what this loser is trying to tell you all here:
1.) Denis_r acts like a rude, ignorant idiot to others on this site. This includes those who respond on his profile, which he assumes things and rumors them as "fact" and then retorts, responds rudely, sarcastic and condescending to.
2.) He childishly then blocks any and all users whom he feels is "fake" by his laughably poor judgement without giving any users an honest and fair chance to communicate, sort out issues on a civil adult level, provide actual proof, etc...
3.) Because of the witnessed behavior from him by others, they screen shot these postings and publish them on various public groups and forums for exposure.
4.) Then as more people read and chime in to his exposures, he feels a need to retort even more, by a desperate attempt to retaliate on the innocent, rather than to take personal blame for his very own actions. He accuses and attempts to push blame on the guise of his safety net excuse, claiming everyone is merely "fakes" and "catfish". Then, as usual, he ignorantly blocks even more people
5.) Because of this idiotic and endless cycle of ill behavior around here, more and more read about him, more and more expose him and the worse and worse his reputation gets around here because of that as he continually learns nothing and refuses to politely align his behavior when interacting to others.
6.) So now he chooses to sustain his rumors about me, claiming I'm a catfish, having absolutely no proof or facts to back up his claim (because he's never have any since I'm a woman) and then maliciously attempts to persuade everyone on this site to turn me in by reporting me, ignoring me and blocking me....again, without any proof or facts at all to back up his idiotic claim because he's a pathetic loser on here who has his butt hurt when he's exposed, WITH PROOF and FACTS of HIS behavior on here.  Inquire within of that proof and facts. I have it to back me up.  Denis_r, where's your proof and facts against your claims?  Loser!
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to Denis_r : How so, loser?  Please share any and all factual proof of your idiotic claim to us all here.  I'm dying to hear this one!
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to Motsotj : Indeed, that is a hard thing to find here or anywhere on the internet :pensive: 
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This profile is a man posing as a female. Ignore, report and block.
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pls add me tks :kissing_heart:
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to Riverchef71 : :smile: Thanks. It's all about honesty, respect and getting to the right points up front with transparency.  
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