Every man should experience this. The woman giving the massage can go much slower and make it last a long, long time. It's the perfect way for a wife to prepare a cuckolded husband before she has sex with her lover. It'll take hubby a while to get horny again, as this type of release is so draining. My wife has me lay on my back so she can watch me - and slow down a bit as she sees me approaching orgasm. The transfer of sexual control is complete, - all a guy can do is lay there and enjoy while his wife controls the pace and sensations. Don't do this standing up, - your knees will tend to buckle.