an bertthenerd :When I'm wearing mine my wife sets up release dates, 3,4 even 6 weeks at a time. If I say something wrong, she adds an extra week to the release date. AND any release date doesn't mean I can fk her, it's her choice via orgasm denial, jerking off, or a ruined orgasm. With each choice, it's always back into the chastity cage until the next release date.