an 9_paces : its average (eropean average measures 14 to 15 cm when erect). Non Europe average (not counting some but not all African nations ) have a way lower average size (11 to 14 average with Asia measuring the smalles t with a 11 cm average (this is al in cm not inches). This info comes from resent medical text books. So if you around the size in the video you average for Europe and bigger then average counting the world average. So dont let these unrealistic stats you read on porn sites influence youre confidence. Porn is not really representitive for real life.
There is a huge difference between porn (mechanical) and sex (emotional). As well as your brain is needed for cumming it is also a bitch when it comes to stress/fear etc.