Firstly that comment is six years old but if you want to go around answering antiques that's your choice but secondly you do trip yourself up by way of contradiction and I quote " I aim to be polite to all, respectful of anyone who does not harm others but wishes to indulge kinks and whims" What I wrote is called personal opinion, and it's subjective. Your comment attempts to pass for a statement of fact yet you know absolutely nothing about me nor are you likely to.