We are swingers

It all started for us in 2009.

After getting attached in the summer, my husband and I were looking for some socialization. We wanted to meet some new people, and find some new places to hang out and we didn't have many options here. So we started looking online at websites to find out more.

So we looked and looked.. . . eventually we stumbled on a few websites that were about couples hanging out... but for a lot more than just friendship! lol

The sky was the limit on a few of them and they were very open about the possibilities of finding other interested couples to have sex with.

I think we both turned at each other with our eyes wide open and laughed, nervously. But I was definitely curious about it...

..and later I would find out he was too..

So we kept looking for a good websites for people to connect on and we eventually signed up for one of them.

A week or so later, we were looking on there and getting no replies to our emails, to anybody. . . my husband was getting somewhat irritated.

He finally asked me "so what did you really think about all those swinger couple sites?"

After I told him I thought it was "interesting," he followed that with "sooo.....would you be interested in trying something like that?"

I really didn't know what to say about it at first !!
. . . besides Oh My God. . .

After looking through a few of the swinger sites with him, I had definitely thought some about being with another man again sexually, and it was very exciting and arousing to me.

I also thought about seeing him in bed with another woman, and how exciting that would feel. . . just watching him.

And I had thought a lot about all of the excitement of experiencing wild, new sexual possibilities along with him.

I think swinging with my husband is a kind if forbidden fruit fantasy for me. We all want to be desirable enough for someone to want sex with us, and it's human nature to want to explore that side of our sexuality. To be enjoying it with him makes it 100% open and involved for me, and that gives me so much confidence that we are both participating equally in what we do sexually.

I have always had an active, and experimentally open sex life and so this was the absolute perfect opportunity for me to just have some fun with it!

..and be free to try out some things..

And I just assumed that if he was curious enough to ask me about my interest, then he wanted to try it also... and so I told him I thought it would be "interesting to experiment with"

Well, this discussion really set the wheels into motion...

Within a few hours of both agreeing to try it out, we had setup online profiles with nude pics on a few swinger sites!!

Most of them have some form of free membership. On some, those options are very limited (try non existent!) We finally settled on a couple of sites that seemed to be better organized and well run, and so we paid for memberships there.

After a few days, we were getting bombarded with messages from local single males and couples and even a few single females.

A number of the messages we got turned out to be spam. They were not hard to spot and we are at the point that we can very quickly nail somebody who is not what they say they are.

We stay far away from all the drama and look for real, genuine people who are like us and are into the friendship aspects and well. . . yes. . . into the kinky sex too! :D

And the subject eventually kept coming up about me being with other women sexually... And so I finally told him what he had suspected for some time; that I had already been sexual with several women.

Mostly it was the school girl crush kind of thing, but I told him that I had kissed a few girls, and a little further than that with a few.. He was very excited to hear this, you would think that Santa Claus had just dropped off a load of presents! too funny...

I guess that I am lucky to have been with six single women so far. And thirteen bi or lesbian females in the last four years. I have been enjoying it very much with the ladies.. :)

So... as a result of our discussions on the subject, the first encounter we decided on was very interesting. We chose a 45 year old single bisexual female. I will be filling in a lot of the details on her and that whole wonderful evening in a blog to come.. it was my first time to have complete sex with another woman and it was very orgasmic.. another woman made me cum for the first time and not just once..or twice :)