Some answers to FAQs by Kate.
Hopefully this will be read by some of the "wankers" who message us.
First off.... We Greg did not fire up this page on Xhamster for me to find dates, sorry. From 2010 when I started having sex with other men than Greg until 2020 I had an Adultfriendfinder profile and found many men to hook up with from it. I decided then I no longer needed that as I had already networked over that 10 years other avenues to meet men and the pandemic meant that it was no longer worth the monthly fee.
Second thing..... It was not Greg's idea alone that I get sex from other men. In our mid to late thirties issues with our own monogamous sex life were becoming obvious and we experimented with a few things monogamously (some things were fun) but due to life being what it is after a couple of years it became clear it was a difference in appetite between us ( some ED issues with Greg that required pills etc.) and how relatively busy Greg was making our money. So instead of my masterbating when he wasn't around we looked into other "lifestyle choices" We had discussed swinging etc. or having an arrangement in the past but it never really seemed the thing for us. Neither of us had a jealousy issue after 18 years of marriage and had already discussed how if either of us were to get "laid" one off when we travelled apart it wouldn't be a big deal. So we figured if I could replace my toy with a real man for fun and satisfaction why not.? So how to go about this was the question. Looking back, just these conversations alone improved our relationship.
Third thing....As I said other than hearing about other swingers and once or twice being aquatinted with the odd couple that practiced such things we thought discretion important. Our only daughter was off to university across the country and we sold the house and got a condo so that was no longer an issue but we were involved in our community so I would dread anyone even being suspicious of this kind of thing. We chose to open a AFF account with myself as the sole name on it. Married woman seeking men. At first Greg would be with me meeting potential guys at bars etc. He would also always be present when the hook ups happened but within months we found as his being a busy man was part of the original problem we were trying to solve so this was less than practical. Also single women date so why would I feel unsafe doing the same? I met AFF men at public places far enough away from home I wouldn't see people I knew and if we wanted to hook up I invited them on a nearby date to our place. Greg always met every guy but didn't have to be there watching me get fucked.
Forth thing...... I had no idea about the Cuckolding/Hotwife kinks or "lifestyles". Greg like any other guy knew a little from porn venues such as this one and had shown me stuff and I would just giggle and admittedly get a little horny. Our thing was about me getting laid not Greg's entertainment. At first I would only respond to men that if I were single would seem a good match in age and whatever. Some were OK and others were well, duds. Greg finally asked me why I didn't respond to some of the young hung horny guys that were messaging me "you are just looking to get fucked well not have interesting conversations, look at this guy?" He was pointing to a young local guy named Mike who had been regularly messaging me. I thought him to young and hot. "Well he's seen your pics and keeps asking at least respond? Mike was in his 20s fit but not muscly and had a nice looking 9" cock so I couldn't imagine it but Greg was right, why not. I responded we back and forthed a bit. He lived in town so I invited him over while Greg was home one evening and in less than half an hour were in our living room taking off our clothes. His hard on told me he was as into this as I was and he gave me the best sex I had in a long time and told me he wanted to come back for more. I have written about "Magic Michael" in a previous post he changed the whole dynamic. I was looking for "studs" from then on. I had a boy toy who gave me exactly what I needed.
Fifth thing..... Like I mentioned this isn't about the cuckold kink and while if Greg was around he'd check it out and found it all fun somewhat his involvement would generally be passive. He didn't jerk off while he watched or any of that. No humiliation or cages or didn't eat me afterward a "Stag" I guess? . We both embraced a bit of me teasing Greg about how "good this stud is fucking me "or "how nice his big cock is" I might act up the sluttiness a bit, all fun. Having said this it would always be Greg who suggested I "let loose" on any fantasy or desire I might have. He'd point out that my sex life was already "outside the box" so I should indulge myself and experiment. Some of the amateur porn I saw much of it from Xham here was hot so why hold back maybe I should try some things. So if I am to be a "Hotwife" what should I get up to? I had a few pics posted on AFF but we tried a bit of videoing and I couldn't stand seeing myself and was rightfully terrified of putting myself online. I am not Greg's "personal porn star" I am not an "exhibitionist" just the best sex and more of it I could find.
Sixth thing.... Once again not about the cuckold thing necessarily. From some of the men I was regularly interacting with on AFF I decided I did want to experiment with various things. Being Canadian there are not near as many black men per capita but a whole lot were looking to hook up with me on AFF. I went to high school with some who flirted but we didn't hang in the same circled and I married at 19 so I had never dated or slept with any. Greg suggested all the AFF black guys just liked the "look of my booty" Lol. Greg and I ran into a former boyfriend of my sister's BF Roland who used to flirt with me back in the day and invited him over for a beer. When at our place Greg asked him if he'd like to experience " Kate's hospitality at another level" he looked a bit surprised but understood and was plenty eager. We still hook up occasionally and was my go to during the pandemic. I then accepted to meet another man of colour on AFF who was nicely put together and it was pretty good. There were a couple of duds but less goofy jerks and silliness from them as a trend. The odd arrogant jerk but generally these men seemed to understand what I wanted, never got hung up. Played well into my slightly subordinate tendencies and well, looked better naked on the average. What we do together is with our clothes off, I like big thick cocks and fit bodies so they became my choice and were keepers more and more often. A younger single ex coworker woman I met took me to a club she frequented and I started meeting black men not just online. It became a preference one might say.
Seventh thing..... I was 38 and very horny after with all this for over a year and sure seeing some of the porn I was ready to get my "slut on" and in a candy shop. It got relatively wild. AFF, The bar my young single girlfriend I spoke of took me too...Greg had the money for hotel rooms. I had my first threesome... He had a week off and drove me to Windsor where I would meet some men from Detroit I interacted on AFF with and I entertained a different one on 4 different days in that week. I had Greg tie me and hood me for Mike one day. When I was 40 and 41 I became quite the slut and it was fun. Greg thought so too. It slowed down and I looked for steady guys rather than one offs after that almost to a halt during the pandemic. I have a couple of steady studs now I am 52.
If you aren't an idiot I am happy to share experiences and answer more questions.
More posts to come in the future.
Kate
PS Greg has suggested I post about some "defining moments" in my adventures and he will add a couple of his as the husband I "cuckold" his words. lol.... I will give this some thought and we will make a combined post.
PPS 90% of our favourites are chosen by Greg for everyone's entertainment on Xhamster. I enjoy a quick glimpse at many I find hot but they are mostly for you "wankers" out there. Lol
Kate
Greg's PS Helping a buddy with a repair to his shed yesterday. Got home around 3pm, stepped in the door saw a pair of size 12 sneakers there. Peeked around the corner into our living room and saw Morel sitting in my easy chair with one of my beers on the side table. Kate was kneeling in front of him, left hand cupping his ball sack, right hand working his shaft and her mouth slurping away. He placed his left hand behind her head so she couldn't look up then directed her to "come on, finish me off". She dutifly obeyed and in a minute or so took his load in her mouth. He groaned a little then said "good girl". Then she turned her head to greet me standing there with some of his cum still on her lower lip. She stood up and walked over to me took my hand and pulled it over to touch her hot and sopping wet pussy. Less then an hour later they were upstairs and he gave her the fucking she was looking for from that big schlong of his she had drained. As he had already came he was able to drill her for long enough she came a couple of times. Then I BBQ'd some ribs for all three of us. How did your Sunday afternoon go?
Greg
First off.... We Greg did not fire up this page on Xhamster for me to find dates, sorry. From 2010 when I started having sex with other men than Greg until 2020 I had an Adultfriendfinder profile and found many men to hook up with from it. I decided then I no longer needed that as I had already networked over that 10 years other avenues to meet men and the pandemic meant that it was no longer worth the monthly fee.
Second thing..... It was not Greg's idea alone that I get sex from other men. In our mid to late thirties issues with our own monogamous sex life were becoming obvious and we experimented with a few things monogamously (some things were fun) but due to life being what it is after a couple of years it became clear it was a difference in appetite between us ( some ED issues with Greg that required pills etc.) and how relatively busy Greg was making our money. So instead of my masterbating when he wasn't around we looked into other "lifestyle choices" We had discussed swinging etc. or having an arrangement in the past but it never really seemed the thing for us. Neither of us had a jealousy issue after 18 years of marriage and had already discussed how if either of us were to get "laid" one off when we travelled apart it wouldn't be a big deal. So we figured if I could replace my toy with a real man for fun and satisfaction why not.? So how to go about this was the question. Looking back, just these conversations alone improved our relationship.
Third thing....As I said other than hearing about other swingers and once or twice being aquatinted with the odd couple that practiced such things we thought discretion important. Our only daughter was off to university across the country and we sold the house and got a condo so that was no longer an issue but we were involved in our community so I would dread anyone even being suspicious of this kind of thing. We chose to open a AFF account with myself as the sole name on it. Married woman seeking men. At first Greg would be with me meeting potential guys at bars etc. He would also always be present when the hook ups happened but within months we found as his being a busy man was part of the original problem we were trying to solve so this was less than practical. Also single women date so why would I feel unsafe doing the same? I met AFF men at public places far enough away from home I wouldn't see people I knew and if we wanted to hook up I invited them on a nearby date to our place. Greg always met every guy but didn't have to be there watching me get fucked.
Forth thing...... I had no idea about the Cuckolding/Hotwife kinks or "lifestyles". Greg like any other guy knew a little from porn venues such as this one and had shown me stuff and I would just giggle and admittedly get a little horny. Our thing was about me getting laid not Greg's entertainment. At first I would only respond to men that if I were single would seem a good match in age and whatever. Some were OK and others were well, duds. Greg finally asked me why I didn't respond to some of the young hung horny guys that were messaging me "you are just looking to get fucked well not have interesting conversations, look at this guy?" He was pointing to a young local guy named Mike who had been regularly messaging me. I thought him to young and hot. "Well he's seen your pics and keeps asking at least respond? Mike was in his 20s fit but not muscly and had a nice looking 9" cock so I couldn't imagine it but Greg was right, why not. I responded we back and forthed a bit. He lived in town so I invited him over while Greg was home one evening and in less than half an hour were in our living room taking off our clothes. His hard on told me he was as into this as I was and he gave me the best sex I had in a long time and told me he wanted to come back for more. I have written about "Magic Michael" in a previous post he changed the whole dynamic. I was looking for "studs" from then on. I had a boy toy who gave me exactly what I needed.
Fifth thing..... Like I mentioned this isn't about the cuckold kink and while if Greg was around he'd check it out and found it all fun somewhat his involvement would generally be passive. He didn't jerk off while he watched or any of that. No humiliation or cages or didn't eat me afterward a "Stag" I guess? . We both embraced a bit of me teasing Greg about how "good this stud is fucking me "or "how nice his big cock is" I might act up the sluttiness a bit, all fun. Having said this it would always be Greg who suggested I "let loose" on any fantasy or desire I might have. He'd point out that my sex life was already "outside the box" so I should indulge myself and experiment. Some of the amateur porn I saw much of it from Xham here was hot so why hold back maybe I should try some things. So if I am to be a "Hotwife" what should I get up to? I had a few pics posted on AFF but we tried a bit of videoing and I couldn't stand seeing myself and was rightfully terrified of putting myself online. I am not Greg's "personal porn star" I am not an "exhibitionist" just the best sex and more of it I could find.
Sixth thing.... Once again not about the cuckold thing necessarily. From some of the men I was regularly interacting with on AFF I decided I did want to experiment with various things. Being Canadian there are not near as many black men per capita but a whole lot were looking to hook up with me on AFF. I went to high school with some who flirted but we didn't hang in the same circled and I married at 19 so I had never dated or slept with any. Greg suggested all the AFF black guys just liked the "look of my booty" Lol. Greg and I ran into a former boyfriend of my sister's BF Roland who used to flirt with me back in the day and invited him over for a beer. When at our place Greg asked him if he'd like to experience " Kate's hospitality at another level" he looked a bit surprised but understood and was plenty eager. We still hook up occasionally and was my go to during the pandemic. I then accepted to meet another man of colour on AFF who was nicely put together and it was pretty good. There were a couple of duds but less goofy jerks and silliness from them as a trend. The odd arrogant jerk but generally these men seemed to understand what I wanted, never got hung up. Played well into my slightly subordinate tendencies and well, looked better naked on the average. What we do together is with our clothes off, I like big thick cocks and fit bodies so they became my choice and were keepers more and more often. A younger single ex coworker woman I met took me to a club she frequented and I started meeting black men not just online. It became a preference one might say.
Seventh thing..... I was 38 and very horny after with all this for over a year and sure seeing some of the porn I was ready to get my "slut on" and in a candy shop. It got relatively wild. AFF, The bar my young single girlfriend I spoke of took me too...Greg had the money for hotel rooms. I had my first threesome... He had a week off and drove me to Windsor where I would meet some men from Detroit I interacted on AFF with and I entertained a different one on 4 different days in that week. I had Greg tie me and hood me for Mike one day. When I was 40 and 41 I became quite the slut and it was fun. Greg thought so too. It slowed down and I looked for steady guys rather than one offs after that almost to a halt during the pandemic. I have a couple of steady studs now I am 52.
If you aren't an idiot I am happy to share experiences and answer more questions.
More posts to come in the future.
Kate
PS Greg has suggested I post about some "defining moments" in my adventures and he will add a couple of his as the husband I "cuckold" his words. lol.... I will give this some thought and we will make a combined post.
PPS 90% of our favourites are chosen by Greg for everyone's entertainment on Xhamster. I enjoy a quick glimpse at many I find hot but they are mostly for you "wankers" out there. Lol
Kate
Greg's PS Helping a buddy with a repair to his shed yesterday. Got home around 3pm, stepped in the door saw a pair of size 12 sneakers there. Peeked around the corner into our living room and saw Morel sitting in my easy chair with one of my beers on the side table. Kate was kneeling in front of him, left hand cupping his ball sack, right hand working his shaft and her mouth slurping away. He placed his left hand behind her head so she couldn't look up then directed her to "come on, finish me off". She dutifly obeyed and in a minute or so took his load in her mouth. He groaned a little then said "good girl". Then she turned her head to greet me standing there with some of his cum still on her lower lip. She stood up and walked over to me took my hand and pulled it over to touch her hot and sopping wet pussy. Less then an hour later they were upstairs and he gave her the fucking she was looking for from that big schlong of his she had drained. As he had already came he was able to drill her for long enough she came a couple of times. Then I BBQ'd some ribs for all three of us. How did your Sunday afternoon go?
Greg
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