Gurls always look better than girls!
Last month I had 5 dates....2 CD's, 2 GG's and one fully transitioned Transexual/now a woman. We're not talking about sex cause I didn't do all of them. Actually only one because I have to be attracted intellectually too and although I enjoyed each friend for their own qualities, the "sex" part just didn't happen. Anyway..........
My 1st date was a beautiful CD, inside and out. PERFECT hair and make-up. Tastefully dressed and just the right amount of female scent. We enjoyed each other immensely and we did spend the night together. We went to Pricci's Italian on Pharr Rd. (ATL) then to the St Regis Bar in Buckhead. She fit right in everywhere and got the looks from guys and girls.
#2 was a mid 40's blonde divorced Mom who wasn't ready when I went to get her and came down the stairs in jeans with ragged holes and a tied up mans shirt. She didn't stink but made no effort to smell at least clean!
I was going to take her to Ruth's Chris but decided instead on Bar B Que.
Why would a woman of a refined age want to look like her teenage daughter on a date in a lifted 4WD truck?
#3 was the Transitioned woman. Again, perfect hair and flawless make up. Not as heavy on the make up as usual for CD's and Sissyboys. Just right. I did take her to Ruth's Chris and although she was a little quirky, we had a good time and she wants to see me again. We shared a nice kiss at the end of our date and although I felt like we both wanted it to go futher, it didn't. I've talked to her a few times since and we're both happy we left it "undone" for the time being.
#4 Was another beautiful CD. She was dressed to the 9's and her eyelashes were glamorous! Big curly hair (wig) that matched her eyes. Musky scent that wasn't overpowering and her nails were bright red and manicured perfectly. We went to Polaris on Peachtree Street and every man in the place was eyeballing her. Even with their wives/girlfriends right there. We didn't do anything sexwise other than some kissing when I took her home. She did get a little tipsy and was in the mood for some coke. I'm not into that so I left. We'll go out again for sure.
#5 was the other female. I went to pick her up. She wasn't home. I texted her and she was apologizing all over herself. She pulled up about that time and said she needed 5 minutes to get ready. 15 minutes later she came back out with dirty hair, no make up and a top that was at least one size too small for her. She was a big girl, not a problem for me but dress like you care ok? She got in my car and I could actually smell her coochie. I suggested the Varsity for dinner and she was thrilled. (chili dogs and pimento cheese burgers) Those of you that know Atlanta, know what I'm talking about. I was going to take her to a Braves game but she wanted to smoke in my car....uh, no. It pissed her off and to my great relief she told me to take her home.
I don't judge people. You can be anyway you want to be and like whatever it is that you like. Sometimes, we're not gonna click and I'm ok with that. I'll always treat my dates with respect and manners and that's all I ask in return.
The point of this whole story; why don't the real women take the pride and the time to look and smell GOOD!?
3 of my dates looked like magazine models but the 2 women basically looked like they were going to go work in their flowerbeds.
My 1st date was a beautiful CD, inside and out. PERFECT hair and make-up. Tastefully dressed and just the right amount of female scent. We enjoyed each other immensely and we did spend the night together. We went to Pricci's Italian on Pharr Rd. (ATL) then to the St Regis Bar in Buckhead. She fit right in everywhere and got the looks from guys and girls.
#2 was a mid 40's blonde divorced Mom who wasn't ready when I went to get her and came down the stairs in jeans with ragged holes and a tied up mans shirt. She didn't stink but made no effort to smell at least clean!
I was going to take her to Ruth's Chris but decided instead on Bar B Que.
Why would a woman of a refined age want to look like her teenage daughter on a date in a lifted 4WD truck?
#3 was the Transitioned woman. Again, perfect hair and flawless make up. Not as heavy on the make up as usual for CD's and Sissyboys. Just right. I did take her to Ruth's Chris and although she was a little quirky, we had a good time and she wants to see me again. We shared a nice kiss at the end of our date and although I felt like we both wanted it to go futher, it didn't. I've talked to her a few times since and we're both happy we left it "undone" for the time being.
#4 Was another beautiful CD. She was dressed to the 9's and her eyelashes were glamorous! Big curly hair (wig) that matched her eyes. Musky scent that wasn't overpowering and her nails were bright red and manicured perfectly. We went to Polaris on Peachtree Street and every man in the place was eyeballing her. Even with their wives/girlfriends right there. We didn't do anything sexwise other than some kissing when I took her home. She did get a little tipsy and was in the mood for some coke. I'm not into that so I left. We'll go out again for sure.
#5 was the other female. I went to pick her up. She wasn't home. I texted her and she was apologizing all over herself. She pulled up about that time and said she needed 5 minutes to get ready. 15 minutes later she came back out with dirty hair, no make up and a top that was at least one size too small for her. She was a big girl, not a problem for me but dress like you care ok? She got in my car and I could actually smell her coochie. I suggested the Varsity for dinner and she was thrilled. (chili dogs and pimento cheese burgers) Those of you that know Atlanta, know what I'm talking about. I was going to take her to a Braves game but she wanted to smoke in my car....uh, no. It pissed her off and to my great relief she told me to take her home.
I don't judge people. You can be anyway you want to be and like whatever it is that you like. Sometimes, we're not gonna click and I'm ok with that. I'll always treat my dates with respect and manners and that's all I ask in return.
The point of this whole story; why don't the real women take the pride and the time to look and smell GOOD!?
3 of my dates looked like magazine models but the 2 women basically looked like they were going to go work in their flowerbeds.
4 years ago
It's because we actually care and know that we have a ton to overcome on many fronts. IMO, for those that care, we also rather treasure our femme side and enjoy refining it. At least I know I do.
CD's are a tough call. I suppose in some arenas that might be my label, but I prefer to ID as a trans or transvestite at the moment (no surgery).
Although "transvestite" was a pejorative for many moons, I have to disagree with that in my own head. It has a wonderfully continental sound to it, and pretty much all the TV's that I know really bring their looks and hygiene to the game.
On the other hand? "Crossdressers" are far too often hairy men in panties and nothing else. If that's what does it for them? I'm fine. On the other hand, I do think it rather "dilutes" the brand for those of us who really make the effort.